Six Simple Pleasures for a Spring Happiness Refresh
March 11, 2022Photo by Justin Ha on Unsplash |
Even though I love winter in Florida (so much less sweating!),
right about now I need a refresh. My routines have become ruts. I’m caught up
in reading bad news and forgetting how fortunate I am. I don’t want to fail to
enjoy or appreciate what I have, and I want to gently encourage myself to move
forward on my personal and professional goals. If you feel the same way, maybe
you need a spring refresh, too!
Since my word of the year is simpler, I’m starting
small and not adding a lot of unnecessary complexity. I’ve chosen these six
simple pleasures to embrace spring:
- Growing a mini herb garden
Despite (ahem) mixed success with gardening, hope springs
eternal. I love having fresh herbs available when I cook, and they are less
work to grow than vegetables. M-a-y-b-e I can keep them alive through our
brutal summer? Right now, I have basil, rosemary, oregano, and thyme.
Unfortunately, my lavender plant recently died a quick and puzzling death. I
may call this good, or I may add one or two additional herbs, depending on how
these fare.
- Keeping fresh flowers on the kitchen table
This is a continuation of something I’ve been doing for a
while, but it brings me so much joy every day that it’s worth
mentioning. (The only downside is keeping my cat from pulling on the flowers and knocking over the whole shebang, sending a waterfall onto the floor!)
- Investing in new pots and pans
My current set was given to us as a wedding present more
than 30 years ago. I cook dinner most nights, so my pans get used a lot. I
won’t tell you how long it took me to decide on a set, but I finally did! I
haven’t actually used them yet—they’re sitting on the kitchen table until I clear
out the old ones—but I’m looking forward to trying them out.
- Lighting a candle (rather than cursing the darkness)
Even though the days are getting longer, I still get up
while it’s dark because my husband goes to work so early. I don’t like it.
So I try to make the early mornings as pleasant as possible. I enjoyed the calm
I felt while reading by the Christmas tree in December, so I’ve tried to
recreate that feeling by lighting a scented candle and keeping the lamplight low
while I do my morning reading and journaling. It feels like being held in a
little circle of peace.
- Following a schedule
Over the past couple of pandemic years, my already loose
schedule went completely to pieces. I felt like I was either always working,
or always wasting time. I’m experimenting with putting myself on a
schedule with set work hours, an actual lunch break, and weekends off. I need a
way to work with reduced distraction while at the same time keep work from
bleeding into all waking hours. My goal is to reduce the number of decisions I
make about my time, while still retaining some flexibility. Right now, a schedule
feels like a safe place, and a way focus on what I can do instead of on all the
things I can’t.
- Wearing perfume
My friend and walking buddy, Barb, inspired me to stop
saving my perfume for “someday.” During our walks, we often share our efforts
to declutter and organize our spaces, and one thing that comes up is things
that we’ve been saving for special occasions. Perhaps you’ve noticed we’ve had
very few special occasions in the past two and a half years? We both have
multiple perfumes and scented lotions cluttering up our bathrooms. I’ve started
putting on perfume almost every day, even if I’m not leaving the house. Just
because it gives me pleasure.
Are you ready for your own spring refresh?
Refreshing your life doesn’t have to cost a lot of money or
require huge changes. If you’re not sure where to start, think about what would
be pleasing to your senses. What sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and touches
will refresh your spirit and boost your mood? Perhaps you could start listening
to music while you cook or do other household chores (also on my list to try!),
eat at a new-to-you restaurant (or buy takeout), experiment with diffusing essential
oils, set up a reading nook with an extra fluffy throw, or refresh your home or
office by buying some spring-ish decor (or even just rearranging what you
already have). Remember, you don’t have to make major changes to see real
benefits…unless you want to!
Just writing about these things is boosting my mood! This
weekend I’m going to see what other spring refresh-ments I can think of.
How about you? What are your favorite ways to refresh your
life in spring? Do share in the comments!
For more ideas for bringing spring joy into your life,
check out these resources (no affiliation):
Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness, Ingrid Fetell Lee (Amazon, Bookshop). I wrote a blog post about this book here.
Aesthetics of Joy website (by the author of Joyful)
Hill House Living, Paula Sutton (Amazon, Bookshop).
Alexandra Stoddard’s writings, particularly Living a Beautiful Life (Amazon, Bookshop) and Creating a Beautiful Home (Amazon, Bookshop).
5 comments
wonderful. I have a new collection of Le Creuset mugs. The colors are so vibrant! I added 2 new ones this morning & then re-arranged my kitchen cupboards & shelves so they are prominently in sight over the sink. Small visual treats make a difference! Refreshing my life in spring is getting back outdoors for walks, right here in the neighborhood, sometimes with friends, sometimes solo...Soon, I hope sketching...Decluttering & organizing, very important to my serenity & functioning...Thank you, as always, rita
ReplyDeleteRita--I can imagine that a bright mug first thing in the morning would be a mood lifter! I agree that small visual treats lift the spirits, like my flowers on the kitchen table. I hope you're having nice enough weather to allow you to get outside. I know that makes a big difference to my mood.
DeleteI like, lighting a candle rather than cursing the darkness...a nice metaphor for life...my morning journaling time is a sacred pleasure...but I haven't tried it by candlelight!
ReplyDeleteCandlelight adds a serene feel...if you can see your page well enough to write :)
Deleteexcellent post
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