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I’m taking a short break from posting on Catching Happiness, but I’ll be
back soon. Wishing all of you the happiest of new years!
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Just wanted to pop in to wish you all a happy New Year, and
share a few resources to help 2025 get off to a positive start. I have no
affiliation with these people or organizations, but I have enjoyed and
benefited from their offerings in the past. Here’s to a happier new year!
Check out 10 Days of Happiness—a free online program to boost your wellbeing.
Click here to download your own Action for Happiness Happier January calendar (see image above).
Design your year with Gretchen Rubin.
Instead of charging into 2025, why not enjoy a “Gentle January”? This really appeals to me right now as I sit in my house full of boxes! (But hurry, because the live event is tomorrow, Jan. 2. Replay is available, but I think you need to be signed up in order to receive it.)
Remind yourself that good things happen, even when times feel hard. (Many of the most positive things are happening in countries other than my own. It’s helpful to remember that eliminating suffering anywhere is a good thing.)
Wishing you all a joyful 2025. Now back to unpacking…
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The practice of choosing a word of the year is meaningful to me, probably because words are meaningful to me. Since 2010, I’ve chosen a one-word theme each year (except for 2013—I either didn’t choose one, or I didn’t write it down anywhere I can find it now). My word of the year is often something I aspire to (“flow”), or want to have more of (“delight”). I try to choose a word which will influence many areas of my life, one with layers of meaning I hope to discover over time. Some years I’ve found my word meaningful, while others I’ve barely thought of it, or it wound up being a mismatch for what the year turned out to hold (I’m looking at you, “Dare”/ 2021).
I also continue
to incorporate previous years’ words in my life—I still try to work “deeper,”
for example, and 2022’s “simpler” will continue to guide me for the foreseeable
future.
Life moves swiftly and is complicated, so having just one word/concept to guide me simplifies things when I’m making decisions or unsure of something. However, this year I couldn’t land on one word that resonated. I played with at least a dozen, until earlier this week, I realized 2023 needs three words.
1.
Flexible
As most of you know, I’m the main caregiver for my
mother-in-law, Carol. At this point, she needs support more than actual physical
care. I mostly coordinate with Hospice, manage her medications, and try to keep
her supplied with foods she finds appealing. I’m able to leave the house when I
need to, because mostly she takes care of herself (and our adult son is
currently living with us and can keep a watchful eye on her). This situation
could change at any time, and fast, so I don’t want to load myself with
commitments and goals I might not be able to complete. I’m not actively seeking
freelance work (though I’m still available!), but I have some writing projects
I’ve been working on, off and on, for years, that have no deadlines. While this
can sometimes be death to my productivity, this year, I appreciate the
flexibility. I plan to use my writing time to explore them. (I’m hoping to spend
more time with Catching Happiness, too.) Which brings me to the word…
2.
Forward
Even before Carol’s health crisis, I’d been waffling about my
way forward. Do I still want to write? If so, what types of writing do I want
to do? If not, what meaningful work could I do instead? I don’t want a new
career (I don’t think?!), but I still want to engage my mental faculties.
I also want to earn money. I’ve been stuck for a while. I want to move forward.
3.
Fun
And last but not least, I want to have fun in 2023! The past
three years have been decidedly un-fun. I want to be more proactive about finding
and indulging in fun. I’ll write more about fun in future blog posts!
There you have them—2023’s words of the year: flexible,
forward, and fun.
Do you have a word of the year? Please share in the comments
below!
For more information on choosing your own word of the year:
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Welcome back! I hope you’ve enjoyed a peaceful and happy start to 2023. It’s been about as peaceful around here as it ever is (except for a couple of home appliances giving up the ghost).
Ready or not, it’s a new year
I wanted to do a lot of reflection on 2022 and some looking
ahead to 2023 during the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day, but my
husband was off work so we wound up doing some much-needed shopping (see: home
appliance death, above) and hanging out together. I wouldn’t trade this, even
though it briefly left me feeling behind. Here it is January 6th and
I haven’t done any of the things I like to do before the start of a new year. I
haven’t chosen a word of the year. I haven’t set any goals for the year, or
even for the month. I haven’t made a vision board, or even added birthdays to
my new planner.
And that’s OK. I’m not behind. And you’re not either, if you
find yourself in the same position I’m in.
Even though the beginning of a new year is a natural
starting point, it’s still just an arbitrary date. You can start (or stop) an activity,
goal, or dream at any point, on any day.
I would rather be “behind” than rush the process.
I’m gong to continue working thoughtfully through my
end-of-the year rituals until that process feels finished. (I’ve also been
loving seeing and listening to the goals of some of my favorite bloggers and
podcasters. Inspiration for my own.)
New year, new attitude
I spent a good portion of 2022 feeling overwhelmed and,
often, depressed. I didn’t have the mental bandwidth to do much more than just
what I needed to do to fulfill my commitments and responsibilities. But now I
feel a small upwelling of energy and desire. There are things I want to
accomplish, places I want to go, people I want to see. While I’m being
cautious, it feels great to want to set goals and make changes.
The first week of January has started softly. I’m taking
down everything pinned on my bulletin board and I’ve emptied out my Happiness Jar—and
started refilling it. I’m listening to music while sitting in my office rocking
chair and dreaming of what might be in 2023. I’m feeling happy. I hope you are,
too.
How is your new year beginning?
A few fun resources for New Year dreaming and
goal-setting:
Gretchen Rubin’s “23 for 23” printable
Best of Both Worlds podcast: 2023 Goals
Every January, Make Two Lists (a more practical alternative
to resolutions)
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Well, folks, we
made it. 2021 is winding down. I hope you have a happy, peaceful, and safe New
Year’s Eve. Here are a few words of wisdom to see the old year out and welcome
in the new:
“No matter how hard the past, you can always begin again.”
—Buddha
“For last year’s words belong to last year’s language. And next year’s words await another voice.”
—T.S. Eliot
“An optimist stays up until midnight to see the new year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves.”
—William E. Vaughan
“What the new year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the new year.”
—Vern McClellan
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Even though I’d like to dive into the New Year with
gusto, I’m finding it slow going. Nothing much has really changed yet, and most
of 2020’s challenges remain. Even though it’s already one week into January,
I’m still going through my usual end-of-one-year/beginning-of-another rituals
and planning practices.
I tell myself there’s no need to rush. I have a lot of unfinished business from last year, a lot of projects started and abandoned that I may or may not pick up again. I don’t want to stop dreaming, but I also don’t want to utterly frustrate myself with plans that stand little chance of happening in the coming year.
I believe this is a time for gentleness and kindness (with ourselves and others), for optimism, but also patience and caution.
So I’m going slow. Taking down mementos from 2020, clipping photos for a new vision board, choosing a word of the year (or rather, letting it choose me).
If you’re having trouble getting excited about a new year, or finding it hard to make plans for the future, feel free to take it slow. Last year was a hard year, and we’re still feeling its effects.
How is your planning process for 2021 different from past years? What would you really love to see happen this year?
P.S. Before we shut the door on The Year That Must Not Be Named, click here to read Cleo Wade’s “It is Okay (a poem of validation for the year 2020)”. I promise it will make you feel better.
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“We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day.”
―Edith Lovejoy Pierce
Wishing you all a happy New Year. May it be filled with peace, happiness, and health.
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Is it too far into the year to tell you Happy New Year? It
feels like 2020 has gotten off to a sleepy start for me, personally. I had one
writing assignment to wrap up from the end of 2019, and now that it’s done, I
can catch my breath and do some reflecting and planning. I went through my
calendar/planner from 2019 and jotted down notable events and thought about the
accompanying emotions. It was a full year.
I’d still like to set some new goals, and do some additional fun visualizing stuff—and hopefully, I’ll get to that soon. I’ve been jotting down possibilities, and will fill out my “20 for 2020” list to hang on my bulletin board. (Make your own, or download a free printable, like this one—no affiliation.)
I’d still like to set some new goals, and do some additional fun visualizing stuff—and hopefully, I’ll get to that soon. I’ve been jotting down possibilities, and will fill out my “20 for 2020” list to hang on my bulletin board. (Make your own, or download a free printable, like this one—no affiliation.)
If you’re still in a contemplative mood, here are a few
recent Internet discoveries I’ve found thought-provoking or otherwise worthwhile:
While the New Year is already here, you can always decide to
get rid of one (or more) of these “8 Things to Get Rid of Before the New Year."
One very simple way to review the old year and approach the
new year, from Sandra Pawula’s (Always Well Within) Wild Arisings newsletter:
“I began the 2019 review process informally a few weeks ago by jotting down a heading in my journal called ‘Good Things 2019.’ I placed things on the list as they came to me day-by-day day. I also put in a second heading around the same time called ‘Let Go Of 2019,’ which I approached in a similar fashion.”
I love this quote, from Rainbow Rowell
When you make your list of things to do in the new
week/month/year, do you plan for joy, not just work or accomplishment?
According to, Ingrid Fetell Lee, author of Joyful, we should! In “Planfor Joy, Not Just Goals,” she writes,
“When we’re children, joy seems effortless because someone has planned it for us. As we get older, we can either believe that life has gotten less joyful, or we can take charge of planning it for ourselves.”
She continues later in the post,
“Scheduling in joy is making a promise to yourself that it will actually happen. Productivity experts suggest putting everything that matters to you on your calendar. If you schedule business meetings and exercise, you are calling these out as important. So why not also give your joy this same weight by putting game nights or reading before bed into your calendar too?”
I’ve already started participating in the Unread Shelf Project. Things have Gotten Out of Hand in the purchased-but-not-yet-read yet
book department.
It wouldn’t be Link Love without a post from Raptitude.
Check out “How to Go Deeper in 2020.” Deeper was my word of the year in 2017
and I’m tempted to revisit it.
Just discovered the delightful NPR Tiny Desk Concerts. I hadn’t heard of 99 percent of the musicians represented here, but I’ve enjoyed every tiny concert I’ve listened to.
What are some of your plans for 2020? I’d love to hear
about them in the comments.
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It’s a bright, shiny new year. How is it treating you so
far?
So far so good, here at Catching Happiness. I’m happy to say
my freelance work continues to flow in, and our son recently passed his (very
difficult) 2-20 property and casualty insurance agent’s license exam. A child’s
success: that’s a happy BIG thing.
The end of 2018 and beginning of 2019 have been a scramble.
I’m slowly making the time to reflect on 2018 as well as begin to think about goals
and projects for 2019. In November, I’ll have been producing Catching Happiness
for 10 years. How is that even possible?! I still remember how exciting
and scary it felt to click publish for the first time. I’ll have to come up
with a fitting way for us all to celebrate!
“Flow” was my 2018 word of the year, and it served me well. I worked and traveled more than I have in
past years, and I lost a parent. We also added a puppy to the household, and
even though Luna’s a year old now, she still requires significant training and
supervision—and she’s not always getting it. (My husband’s Christmas slippers
didn’t survive a week!) For the past few months of 2018, I’ve felt like I was
riding a raft in white water—going with the flow was a fitting image to hang onto.
I’ve been thinking a lot about where I want to go,
figuratively speaking, in 2019. My comforting routines have fallen by the
wayside and need to be rebuilt. I’m still getting used to life at my new barn.
The owner is wonderful, and it will be a good situation in the long run, but
we’re still finding our footing. I need to simplify my life (again) so I can
pay attention to the things that mean the most to me. (And I have a lot of
messes to clean up. A. Lot. Of. Messes.)
I think my word of the year for 2019 is going to be “rise.”
It keeps knocking on the door of my consciousness, but I don’t know what it’s
trying to tell me yet. Guess I’ll have 12 months to figure it out.
Do you choose a word of the year? How is your planning for
2019 going? What are some of your hopes and dreams for the new year? What was
great about 2018, and what lessons did it teach you? Please share in the
comments below!
Traditionally, I’ve taken a break during the week between
Christmas and New Year’s. I didn’t get the chance to do that last week, so I’m
going to take next week off instead. Be back soon!
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I don’t know about you, but for me 2018 was f.u.l.l. The
last few months have been a mad scramble, and I’m planning some time off this
week to recover. I’d take more time, but I already have writing deadlines! (Yay
for writing deadlines.)
Before 2018 becomes history, I want to say thank you to you,
my Catching Happiness friends. Thank you for reading, for commenting, and even
for lurking (I lurk on multiple blogs myself). Working on Catching Happiness is
one of the pleasures of my life.
Happy New Year, and see you in 2019!
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Now and then I dip into the Catching Happiness
archives and share a post from the past. Even though this one was written in 2013,
I’m still doing some of the same things, including purging my house, getting excited about fall, and planning another anniversary trip, this time to commemorate our 30th
anniversary! Apparently, some things never change.
Is it just me, or does September feel like a new beginning? Most of my life I’ve treated September the way most people treat January: as a new year. Even before I had a child going back to school or lived in Florida where the promise of the occasional cooler, drier day bumps up my energy, I reevaluated my life in the fall. My birthday is in September, so I think that adds to the “new start” feeling since like most of us I become more introspective around birthdays.
I’ve thought about starting my own Happiness Project, like Gretchen Rubin has written about in the book of the same name, and its follow-up Happier at Home (where the title of this blog post came from). I even began listing areas I’d like to focus on, but decided I’m not ready to attack things I want to change or enhance in quite that fashion. Planning all those months in advance felt too overwhelming to me. Instead, I decided to take baby steps and do some very simple things to get my new year off to a good start:
First, I’m keeping a time log this week to see where I’m spending my time. (I’m using this one.) From there, I hope to come up with a flexible schedule so I can get the important things done while still having time to play.
My weight has become a concern again, so I’m tweaking my eating and fitness routines to combat those creeping pounds.
I’m making plans for fun by figuring out the details of our postponed anniversary trip and scheduling some upcoming Field Trip Fridays.
I’m purging—the freezer, my closet, my file cabinet. I’m always battling stuff!
Even though it’s still blazingly hot here and it doesn’t feel like fall yet, I’m starting to feel more energetic, more likely to make some changes and explore new avenues. I’m ready to savor simple pleasures and take part in everyday adventures. Even though the calendar says September and not January, I’m ready for a new year!
Do you make any special plans in September? Are there any other times of year you evaluate life, set goals or take up challenges?
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Does anyone make a New Year’s resolution anymore? There’s a
lot of talk about how resolutions are rarely kept, and how most people give up
on their goals just a few weeks or months into the year. For a person who wants
to set and achieve goals, it can be a frustrating dilemma. If resolutions
aren’t an effective way to a better and happier life, what is?
Here are seven alternatives to New Year’s resolutions that
just might help you make 2018 your happiest year ever:
Choose a Word of the Year
I’ve done this for eight years, and written about it several times on Catching Happiness. I choose my word to focus on an overall theme or feeling I want to carry through the entire year. I choose it to offset tendencies I want to correct, or to remind myself to choose happiness (“delight”). My word for 2017 was “deeper,” and going deeper into life last year added brilliant new dimensions to my experience. My word for 2018? Flow. For a free Word of the Year tool, click here. To explore the concept further, visit oneword365.com.Adopt a “Do More ______, Do Less_____” philosophy
For example, “Read more, watch TV less” or “Walk more, eat less junk food.”
Deceptively simple, but baby steps work.
Commit to a 30- or 90-day challenge
Choose a habit
you want to adopt or a small goal you want to achieve, and work on it for 30
days straight. For larger goals, make a 90-day plan, treating each week as the
equivalent of month (see The 12 Week Year for more inspiration and ideas
about how to do that.)
Make a list of simple pleasures and everyday adventures you want to experience
How often do we pack our goal lists with things we
want to change or have to work for? This is simply a list of things you look forward to in 2018.
Family vacations, books you want to read or movies you want to see in 2018, or
a loved one’s wedding/baby/grandchild belong on this list. Try breaking it down
like Laura Vanderkam does with her seasonal “fun lists”.
Write a letter to your future self
Include such
things as what you hope to accomplish, how you want to feel, what you’d like to
leave behind in the coming year. Open it on Jan. 1, 2019 to see how you did.
Start a gratitude journal, jotting down at least one thing you’re grateful for every day
(Read The Gratitude Diaries for
an inspiring look at how gratitude can make your life happier.)
Join the 7 Things x 2018 Challenge
Fill in the following blanks, and you’ve got some
goals for the year:
Learn how to ____________
Start ____________
Stop ____________
Take a vacation to ____________
Find ____________
Try ____________
Be more ____________
Growth contributes to happiness, so setting and reaching
goals is one way to feel happier. I hope 2018 holds plenty of growth and
happiness for you!
What do you have planned for 2018?
Note: Starting today, I’m changing the usual Catching Happiness posting schedule from Wednesdays and Fridays to Mondays and Fridays. Happy New Year!
During the week between Christmas and Jan. 1, I begin my official year-end wrap up and planning for the next year. I don’t do New Year’s resolutions, but I do set some big, overarching goals at this time. Or try to. I have a problem with big, overarching goals. Oh, I can set them all right, but I struggle with the nitty-gritty, down-and-dirty practicality of how to get from here to there. I’m going to try something new this year, which I’ll get to later, but first, I’m going to share with you some tools I use for planning my goals for a new year.
Year-End Review
Before I get into any goal setting, I look back over the
past year to see what I’ve accomplished and where I’ve fallen short. This year,
I used Marie Forleo’s three-question review, but I also wrote down a list of
some of the more mundane things I did that nevertheless were accomplishments,
such as reading 109 books, posting to Catching Happiness 106 times, and
starting a regular sketching practice (three months and counting). While I fell
short on working on my book idea, riding Tank bridleless, purging my house of
unneeded items, and various and sundry other goals, 2016 was a better-than-average
year for me. I took a moment to savor those accomplishments before moving on
to…
Goal Brainstorming
Next, I start writing out all the things that are floating around in my head that I would like to see accomplished in the coming year. This is where I allow myself to dream big, and I include as many of the nagging tasks I’d like to see finished as I can think of. This year, I’ve made a list called “70 in ’17”—70 things I want to happen in 2017. Some of these are writing goals (complete a draft of that book, write some haiku), some are household goals (buy new light fixture for kitchen nook, stain the chairs on the front porch), and some are just for fun (do puzzle with M, buy some new music, go to Fannin Hill with Tank). My idea is to work from this list as I sit down to plan each month.
12-Week Planning
This is the new thing I mentioned above. I recently read The12-Week Year, and I’m experimenting with 12-Week planning. I’m hoping this will solve my problem with carrying out my bigger goals by helping me break them down into much smaller, more do-able increments. So far, I’m still struggling a bit with that—my perfectionism (fear in disguise?) is hampering my ability to choose and break down appropriate goals, but I’m making progress.
Word of the Year
As I’ve done in past years, I choose a word of the year to guide me. Previous years’ words have included open, light, passion, and quality. This year’s word is “deeper.” I want it to encourage me to stop skimming the surface and go deeper, to find the riches that are buried. Be less superficial, more real. Do fewer things, but do them better.
Vision Board
For me, this is just pure fun. I like playing with pretty pictures! I create two—a larger one for my office, and a smaller one to go in my daily planner. I choose images and words that make me happy and draw me to them, that symbolize for me something I want more of in my life.
How do you plan for a new year? Do you have any goals or
dreams for 2017 you’d like to share?
“A new year is a gift, a small piece of infinity, to do with
as we will. Things happen. We grow (we hope), and we learn willy nilly. Life
moves around us, life moves through us to others, and the year gradually
accepts its pattern. We give, we take, we resist, we flow. Our reachings,
acceptances, rejections, our hesitancies, courage, fears, and our loves, all
these form the shape of the year for each of us, as individuals, as part of a
family, as a member of a community.”
—Jean Hersey, The Shape of a Year
I hope you had a most happy and refreshing holiday season.
Even though it was 85 degrees on Christmas Day, we enjoyed hosting family for a
meal, and apparently we were very good this year, because we all received
delightful gifts.
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I spent last week sleeping in, puttering around, dreaming
and making plans for 2017, reading, and (let’s be honest) keeping Prudy out of
the Christmas tree until I could take it down yesterday. This year’s broken ornament
count: two. Not bad.
For me personally, 2016 was an excellent year, and I plan to
build on that success in 2017. I have fun plans for Catching Happiness, too—so
stick around!
Happy New Year—may it bring you much joy, growth, and
meaning!
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The Christmas tree is packed away, much to Prudy’s
disappointment (broken ornament count: 3), and we finally, finally have
some cool weather set to stick around for a few days. The sun shines today
after a couple of gray, rainy days. It feels like a new year and, for
the moment, I feel energized.
For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be setting goals and
intentions for at least the next quarter of the year. Starting with—no reading
challenges. I’m passing on them all, because they were starting to feel
not-fun. When reading a vintage mystery starts to feel not-fun, then
something’s wrong. In 2016, reading is one area I’m leaving entirely to whim.
Any reading projects I take on will be ones I set for myself. (But thank you to
the lovely folks who set and run reading challenges—it’s not you, it’s me! I may be
back next year.)
I’ll be finalizing my word of the year, playing around with
this workbook, and generally doing what I can to set myself up for a fantastic
year.
So, welcome 2016. I’ve got a good feeling about you.
Have you made any special plans or set any intentions for
2016?
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Introduction by Ted Kooser: Here’s a New Year’s poem
by Judy Ray, who lives and writes in Tucson. I like the way that common phrase,
“the turning of a year,” has suggested to her the turns in a race track. Her
most recent book is To Fly Without Wings, (Helicon Nine Editions,
2009).
Turning of the Year
We never know if the turn
is into the home stretch.
We call it that—a stretch
of place and time—
with vision of straining,
racing. We acknowledge
each turn with cheers
though we don’t know
how many laps remain.
But we can hope the course
leads on far and clear
while the horses have strength
and balance on their lean legs,
fine-tuned muscles, desire
for the length of the run.
Some may find the year smooth,
others stumble at obstacles
along the way. We never know
if the finish line will be reached
after faltering, slowing,
or in mid-stride, leaping forward.
We do not accept unsolicited submissions. American Life
in Poetry is made possible by The Poetry Foundation (www.poetryfoundation.org),
publisher ofPoetry magazine. It is also supported by the Department of
English at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Poem copyright ©2012 by Judy
Ray, “Turning of the Year,” from The Whirlybird Anthology of Kansas City
Writers, (Whirlybird Press, 2012). Poem reprinted by permission of Judy Ray and
the publisher. Introduction copyright © 2015 by The Poetry Foundation. The
introduction's author, Ted Kooser, served as United States Poet Laureate
Consultant in Poetry to the Library of Congress from 2004-2006.
With the turning of the year, many of us become more
contemplative. We think about the past year, the future, and what we want more
or less of in the coming months. Here is a collection of
end-/beginning-of-the-year links I found inspiring and helpful, and that you
might enjoy also:
Playing off the 12 days of Christmas idea, Laura Vanderkam
has come up with “12 Days to a Happier, More Productive You.”
Sandra at Always Well Within has prepared a couple of free downloads here: A time-tracking log as well as a
worksheet to help you review the past year.
Just in case you’re overwhelmed by “have an amazing year”
cheerleading, remember that “life isn’t a tidy upward achievement narrative,”—and that’s OK.
How to say No graciously—an important skill we all need.
Disconnect, do less and be more successful!
And on a lighter note, the folks at Smartpak (no
affiliation) have made a series of funny videos with the theme “If horses were
people.” Here is a recent one, about blanketing, that made me laugh. (The
farrier one is hilarious, too.)
Happy New Year and happy Friday!
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“There
was a sighing, soft and cold, as if the year turned over
in his sleep.”
—Rose
Macaulay,
Personal Pleasures
Isn’t
that a lovely description of the turning of the year? My favorite way to see in
a new year is quietly, thoughtfully, with a book, my journal and maybe a glass
of wine to keep me company. (My husband is there, too, probably reading in bed…
We lead such wild and crazy lives!)
I know the calendar is an arbitrary division of time, but I
feel the weight of the old year bearing down on me. The weight of goals
achieved and not achieved, of challenges met and unmet...the days and weeks
and months of 2014 feel heavier each moment. A new year is about to dawn,
and it feels like a weight will fall off my shoulders with the passing of the
old year. Do you feel that way too? The endings and
beginnings of this time of year feel like a good chance to shrug off the old and look forward with optimism to the new. But before I go all philosophical
on you, let me just quickly review the public challenges I set for myself in
2014:
I succeeded in all three of my reading challenges—click here
to see the results. I am just finishing up that last Mt. TBR book, but it will
be done by the end of the month. I managed just one bingo, but I filled a
number of other spaces—just not in a line! And I read all the “required”
classics, and one of the optional books.
For 2015: I plan to read from my shelves
again, since (surprise!) I continued to buy new-to-me books in 2014. I did end
up with a small reduction in the TBR pile, but I still have many, many
books secreted on my closet shelves.
I’ll also participate in the updated classics challenge here and once
again in the Vintage Mystery Bingo Challenge.
30-Day Gratitude Photo Challenge
I’m so happy that I completed this challenge—it was fun,
uplifting and gave me the boost I needed to take on…
31 Days of Sketching with Belle from Belle, Book and Candle starting Jan. 1. She plans to post her art on a separate blog (address to come), and I’m not
sure yet how I’m going to post mine. I’m still working out the details and collecting prompts so that
I’m never at a loss for what to sketch. My goal is to make sketching an
activity rather than an event.
This year has been a year of emotional stress and upheaval
(and dying computers and dogs going to the emergency vet), though I haven’t
publicly written much about it. It was also a year of seeing old friends and
family, reading good books and discovering Doctor Who. I’m grateful for
the gifts 2014 has given me, but I want 2015 to feel different—less
frustrating and anxiety ridden. I can’t control what happens to me, only
how I react. Optimistically, I turn towards 2015, hoping for a happier and more
successful year. But hoping will not make it so. If I want 2015 to be better
than 2014, and I do, I will have to make some changes—in what I do and how I
think. I’ll share what I learn in hopes that it will help and encourage you,
too. As always, I’m especially grateful for all of you who have taken time to read my
words and share your thoughts with me.
What gifts has 2014 given you? What do you look
forward to in 2015?
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