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| Photo by Maddi Bazzocco on Unsplash |
When I wrote “I’m not even going to try to guess what 2022 holds, but I am going to stay optimistic and open” in my first post of the year, I couldn’t have guessed what the year would hold, and I’m actually grateful for that!
We can never “know” what’s coming (though sometimes we can guess).
All we can do is savor the happy times, and build a foundation of resilience
and a network of support for the hard ones. To stay “optimistic and open,” even
when it’s hard. (And forgive ourselves when we fail at that.)
We can also cling to practices which help us feel grounded
and give a shape and structure to our lives. Today I’d like to share my mid (-ish)
year review of my efforts to shape 2022 so far.
Word of the Year (WOTY)
With the unavoidable complications of caregiving, “simpler”
has been a great focus word. Here are a few ways I’m applying the concept of simpler:
I’ve continued to declutter my house. I’ve been watching YouTube
videos by The Minimal Mom to maintain motivation, and one of the concepts she’s
brought to my attention is that it’s all about “inventory management.” How much
“stuff” do you want to manage? I’m not a
minimalist, but I do find a less cluttered environment contributes to a calmer
mind.
I’ve stripped my writing down to the bare minimum. This isn’t
my favorite practice, but right now it’s the right choice. I simply don’t have
the emotional and mental bandwidth to write much. (Though if the right project or
idea comes along, I’ll make an exception!)
I’m breaking tasks into smaller, simpler steps. For example, we want to touch up the paint in
our bedroom. My task for this week was “Find out if we have the paint we need
or if we have to buy more.” (Note: This will take approximately three minutes…and
yet, here it is Friday and I haven’t done it yet! Since it is such a small
step, though, I will probably manage to do it. This is why I need to break
things down into tiny steps.)
“22 in 22”
In January, I’d only put about 10 things on my “22 in 22”
list; now I’m up to 19. My entries range in difficulty from “buy new pjs” to “West
Coast visit with Mom, Shy, and Kerri.” I’ve accomplished nine of the 19
(including the two just mentioned), with another three in progress. Considering what
2022 has wrought, I’m pretty happy with this. And I still have almost half the
year to go.
The Happiness Jar
Even though I forget some weeks, I’m still dropping slips of
paper in the Happiness Jar on a regular basis. It looks like this now:
I’m adding a reminder to my informal weekly planning session so I don’t keep forgetting. This little project really does make me happy.
What else?
No surprise here, I’ve been reading a lot! Books old and
new, from my TBR shelf and from the library. I’m still working through my
personal reading project, “Agatha in Order” (reading Agatha Christie’s novels
in the order they were published). I’ve also been listening to more audio
books. (Is anyone interested in a reading round-up post?)
Tank is living his best life, roaming a 15-acre property
with a “gang” of older geldings. I ride once a week on average, an easy hack
around the property with the occasional trot thrown in (he’s in better shape
than I am for this). The heat and humidity of the Florida summer preclude doing
much more than that, even if we wanted to.
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| Tank (in front) with best buddy Bubba |
My sketching practice is still largely theoretical, though I did do two or three sketches while I was in California in June. One of the undone “22 in 22” entries.
Future plans
I’m keeping them simple(r). Continue to experiment with ways
to make sketching a habit rather than an event. Continue to declutter. Continue
to slow down and take it one day at a time. Work on those tiny steps.
Lessons learned
Or, rather, lessons I’m in the process of learning… Hard
things get easier over time. Letting go of perfectionism is more important—and more
complicated—than I thought. Don’t wait if there’s something you really want.
You never know when something may happen that makes it impossible to go after your
desires.
I hope the first half of 2022 has brought you both joy and
challenge—and that you’re on your way to reaching your own most desired dreams for
the year.
How has your year been so far? Do you have any plans for
the last half of 2022?
