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Change Your Environment, Change Your Emotions—Three Simple Ways to Support Positive Moods
September 01, 2017
Acoustic guitar music plays low in the
background. The ceiling fan spins, the coffee is hot, the paper and pen just
right…on a good day, this is how I set the mood when I write. My office
walls are painted a certain color, the window blinds are always open during the
day, there are shelves filled with books, a glider rocker. I’ve done everything
in my power to make this room a happy place.
To energize, calm, inspire, comfort—whatever the emotion we
want to feel, there likely is a way to nudge ourselves in that direction by
manipulating our surroundings. Whether it’s the music we listen to or the
motivational quotes we tack up on our refrigerator, we create the atmosphere in
which our moods grow. As Sam Gosling, author of Snoop: What Your Stuff Says About You, wrote, “Much of the stuff we gather about us and the
environments we create are there not to send messages about our identities but
specifically to manage our emotions and thoughts.”
Here are three simple environmental factors that can
boost—or lower—your mood:
Tidiness
I don’t aspire to Marie Kondo levels of
organization, but it does make me feel lighter and happier when I look around
at tidy surroundings. I like knowing that if I open the hall closet door,
nothing will fall on my head. I’m in an ongoing battle with paper in my office,
and books everywhere else, but I make an effort to keep my kitchen cleaned up
and I make the bed most days because it makes me happy to see it like that.
I’m also prone to taking on a cleaning or organizing project
when I’m frustrated or blocked in my creative pursuits. Some would say I’m
avoiding my work, but I choose to think of it as a way to distract the inner
critic long enough to sneak some ideas by her. Making progress in one area (a
cleaned out hall closet) often leads to progress in another (a completed blog
post).
(Just don’t look in my office right now—eesh!)
Light
The presence or lack of light, especially natural
light, makes a huge difference to me. If we have a run of a few days with no
sunshine, I feel my mood lowering just like the clouds. Light is essential to
the human body, helping to regulate hormones that affect mood and sleep. You’ll
almost always find “step outside” on lists of ways to feel happier, and getting
some natural light is one of the reasons that’s so effective.
Scent
Essential Oils are Having a Moment. Everywhere you
turn, they’re touted as the cure for some malady. So far, my main use for them
has been scent. I diffuse oils in the bedroom, kitchen, and my car. I like when
things smell good! It’s a bonus when those scents have beneficial effects on my
mood, which some research suggests that they do.
According to Christopher Alexander in The Timeless Way of
Building: “There is a myth, sometimes widespread, that a person need only
do inner work…that a man is entirely responsible for his own problems; and that
to cure himself, he need only change himself…The fact it, a person is so formed
by his surroundings, that his state of harmony depends entirely on his harmony
with his surroundings.” To be truly happy, we still need to do the inner work,
but we can support that work with simple pleasures that make our surroundings
more to our taste. So if you find yourself battling sadness, fear, anxiety,
stress or other negatively-charged emotions (and who doesn’t?), take a look at
your surroundings. Maybe there’s something you can change that will help you
feel better.
What is your favorite way to influence your mood by manipulating your environment? Please share in the comments!