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In one of my favorite Seinfeld episodes, after George Costanza gets fired from the Yankees, he receives a severance package equal to three months’ pay. He decides he won’t work for three months, instead indulging in “The Summer of George,” which for him means wallowing in idleness, trying never to leave his apartment. Hmm…
Let it be known I’m indulging in “The Summer of Kathy.”
My well is dry. I’m exhausted mentally and emotionally from
digging deep to deal with such hard issues as terminal illness of loved ones, losing
a parent, and trying to decide what to do with all of my mom’s belongings (including
her cats) during two extended stays in California. I’m still not done with all
of that, but the most urgent matters are being handled. After the horrifying whirlwind
of the past four months, I’m definitely taking my activity level down a notch
this summer.
Actually, that’s not quite true. What I’m planning to do,
along with getting extra rest and taking time to contemplate what’s next now
that my caregiving duties have ended, is catch up on the simple pleasures and
everyday adventures I had to put aside temporarily. Therefore, I have a more
ambitious than usual Summer Fun List this year. I’ve already checked off a
couple of these (noted in red), so I think I’m off to a good start!
- Paint my toenails a color other than pink. (With dubious results, but at least I did it. The jury is still out on whether or not I like teal toenails.)
- Have a bubble tea.
- Try a new obedience training program with Luna (started).
- Make key lime pie ice cream.
- Plant a small, potted herb garden.
- Read a lot.
- Take a horseback riding lesson. Tank is semi-retired and off for the summer, but there’s a new horse at the barn available for lessons. I haven’t taken a lesson in more than five years, so I need a tune up.
- Work at least one jigsaw puzzle.
- Have a massage. I’ve been trying to do this since the beginning of the year, but I’ve had to cancel two appointments because of my moms’ failing health.
- Go to a movie with my husband.
- Bake something from my grandma’s baking book (inherited from my mom).
- Get together with friends—I’ve been mostly unavailable in 2023, so we have some catching up to do.·
Mainly what I want to do is rest and regroup and slow
down. I’ve been rushing for so long. This list gives me some things to look
forward to during my least favorite season, and who knows? Maybe by the end of The
Summer of Kathy, new and exciting opportunities will show themselves—and maybe
I’ll have the energy to take advantage of them. My goal is to combine emotional
healing with gentle adventure. We shall see how it goes.
What are your summer fun plans?
More summer fun lists:
Laura Vanderkam’s 2023 Summer Fun List (I originally heard of the summer fun list from Laura)
Cup of Jo’s Low-Key Summer Check List
