Spent the weekend on the beach with my wonderful husband
celebrating our 24th anniversary (very belatedly—our actual anniversary
is in January!). I’m a little sunburned, despite sunscreen and shade, but more
relaxed than when we left. It was such a pleasure to be away from
responsibility and to-do lists, to be with each other with only fun on the
agenda. We walked on the beach, swam, did a lot of reading and poked around in
some antiques stores and a flea market. I even did a little sketching:
Our room:
Sea grapes--I've never seen the grapes before!
Don't these look inviting?
It was a great way to start our summer. Hope your
weekend was just as happy!
When I turned my wall calendar page to June this morning, I
found a list of 2012 international holidays stapled inside. I was about to toss
it, when I stopped to take a look. Along with the more traditional
holidays like Christmas, New Year’s and various independence days, other
countries celebrate some memorable and colorful holidays such as:
Not to brag or anything, but we here in the U.S.
have quite the array of holidays and
“National Month/Day of” designations ourselves. For example, in addition to the
well-known Father’s Day and Flag Day, June contains some of most lighthearted
and silly of these. How about Chimborazo
Day (June 3)—celebrating an inactive volcano that is supposedly the point on
Earth that is closest to the Moon and farthest from the Earth’s center? Food
lovers celebrate National Cheese Day (June 4), National Chocolate Ice Cream Day
(June 7), Iced Tea Day (June 10), Corn on the Cob Day (June 11), National Fudge
Day (June 16) and National Bomb Pop Day (June 28)—among others!
To work off all that ice cream and cheese, you can get
outside for National Trails Day (June 2), National Running Day (June 6—also
National Yo-Yo Day) or Go Fly a Kite Day (June 5).
Kites. Go fly one on June 5. Photo courtesy Falto.
Other days of note: Weed your Garden Day (June 13), World
Juggling Day (June 16), Eat Your Vegetables Day (June 17), Take Your Dog to
Work Day (June 22), Camera Day (June 29), and Meteor Day (June 30).
And, of course, there’s always Donald Duck’s birthday. Mr.
Duck made his first appearance in the cartoon “The Wise Little Hen” on June 9, 1934. Happy 78th
birthday, D.D.!
Believe it or not, these are just a few of the days in June
with official celebrations! Click here for a more complete listing.
What do you want to celebrate today? Me, I’m celebrating
National Doughnut Day—meet me at Krispy Kreme for a free doughnut!
Children at play give personalities to lifeless objects, and
we don’t need to give up that pleasure as we grow older. Poets are good at
discerning life within what otherwise might seem lifeless. Here the poet Peter
Pereira, a family physician in the Seattle
area, contemplates a smiling statue, and in that moment of contemplation the
smile is given by the statue to the man. [Introduction by Ted Kooser.]
The Garden Buddha
Gift of a friend, the stone Buddha sits
zazen,
prayer beads clutched in his chubby
fingers.
Through snow, icy rain, the riot of spring
flowers,
he gazes forward to the city in the
distance—always
the same bountiful smile upon his portly
face.
Why don’t I share his one-minded
happiness?
The pear blossom, the crimson-petaled magnolia,
filling me instead with a mixture of
nostalgia
and yearning. He’s laughing at me, isn’t
he?
The seasons wheeling despite my
photographs
and notes, my desire to make them pause.
Is that the lesson? That stasis, this holding
on,
is not life? Now I’m smiling, too—the late
cherry,
its soft pink blossoms already beginning to
scatter;
I had no trouble falling asleep over my book, so I turned
out the light around 10:45. But now
it’s 2 a.m. and I’m awake. My mind has
begun to turn, like a merry go-round, starting slowly but picking up speed. My
husband has chosen tonight to snore—not loudly, but vigorously enough to keep
me awake. I try to relax, to breathe, to capture pleasant thoughts, but it’s
all for nothing. “Snxxkkll,” says my husband, and the breeze from the ceiling
fan seems unusually strong. I can’t get comfortable.
My mind seizes the opportunity to highlight whatever flaws
and character defects it wants me to know about, thrusting them up for
consideration. I think of three more things, minor but necessary, that I will
add to the to-do list for the week. I feel overwhelmed by how long that list is
growing. Soon I’m having a full-blown anxiety attack and all hope for immediate
sleep has fled. I know that I lead a richly blessed life—that I am not in need
in any real way. But tell that to my mind at 2
a.m.
I repair to the guest room where I turn the TV on low, just
loud enough that I can barely hear it. I find this soothing. Eventually I fall
asleep, only to be woken at 4:18 a.m.
by my son’s alarm clock, the aptly-named Sonic Bomb. I storm into his room,
which adjoins the guest room, and change the time on his alarm to a more
reasonable hour, muttering imprecations (Why
was the alarm set for 4:18 in the
first place? Inquiring minds still want to know.) However, he hit the snooze
button at 4:18, instead of turning
off the alarm, so it goes off again at 4:28. This time, the dog, who sleeps with him,
decides she requires a bathroom break.
By now, it’s getting dangerously close to the time my own
alarm clock is set for. Should I try to get a little more sleep? Do I need the
TV again? Mmm, this bed is pretty comfortable...
Wait—is that my husband getting his coffee in the kitchen?